Is it OK to stay with someone who cheated on you?

Is it OK to stay with someone who cheated on you?

According to bestselling author and relationship expert Susan Winter, whether or not a relationship can continue after someone has cheated depends largely “on the disposition of both partners,” as some individuals are much more forgiving than others.

What does a cheater feel?

Guilt tends to be all about the person feeling the emotion. For example, someone who cheats in a relationship may feel guilty because they’re being judged for what they did. They feel bad for doing something bad. Although this is a valid emotion, it’s probably not enough to rebuild a relationship.

Why infidelity is so painful to the betrayed spouse?

Your imagination torments you with thoughts of what they did together. This is self-inflicted pain. Despite the fact that you’re the one trapping yourself in the thoughts, the pain you feel is profound. You’re embarrassed because your spouse cheated on you.

How do you deal with a hurt spouse cheating?

Treat the old relationship like an addiction. Go out with old friends who love you. Get more exercise. Take an Advil. Share all passwords and give full cell phone access. Share every detail of the betrayal. Define what kind of relationship you are trying to build. Set the clock back to a better time.Weitere Einträge…•