How long should married couples stay separated?
We tend to suggest three to six months as a reasonable amount if you've been together for a while, but this will depend entirely on what you think will work best as a couple. It's common for each person to have different ideas on things like this, so it's important to be open to meeting in the middle if necessary.
What happens when you file for divorce first?
If you file first, you control when the divorce gets filed. You can decide to cancel the divorce, as long as she hasn't filed a response. You have until your spouse files an answer to your complaint to cancel the divorce. By filing first you are the plaintiff and she will be the defendant.
Can we get divorced in the US if we were married overseas?
Yes. You can divorce in an American state even if you were married abroad. However, you can't file for divorce until you fulfill your current state's residency requirements, meaning that you have to live within that state for a period of time prescribed by the state's divorce laws.