Why divorce is so difficult?

Why divorce is so difficult?

However, I would say that the number one reason why the divorce process is so difficult, no matter how long the marriage was, or how many assets have to be divided, is the simple truth that it’s hard to separate out the emotions of the marriage and relationship from the business of getting divorced.

What is the hardest part about divorce?

The hardest part of a divorce is thinking you have a partner for life, and for some period of time actually having that partner, getting used to caring about someone else as much (maybe even more) than you care about yourself… and then one day it just all disappears.

Why does divorce feel like death?

When a person divorces, they are leaving behind these hopes and relationships, so it is an ending. In this way, experiencing a divorce is like experiencing a death and the process of recovery is very similar. Denial.

What is more painful divorce or death?

Many people feel that divorce is even worse than death when rejection, betrayal and shame are added to the loss. In other cases, the breakdown of a marriage happens over a long period of time and the ongoing pain and fear of the inevitable is comparable to a spouse slowly dying of a terminal illness.

Can divorce kill you?

Divorce can be deadly. Those two things together tend to increase your chances of pushing up the daisies well before your time. A 2011 study found that divorced people were 23 percent more likely to die younger than those who had remained married, and divorced men were twice as likely to meet an early grave than women.