Is it adultery if you have permission?
If you have an affair without permission, it’s considered adultery. If you have permission, then it is not adultery. Such ploys amount to mind tricks that appease the conscience based on ‘having permission’, although the guilt and shame remain issues to be dealt with. Any violation of the marital vows has consequences.
Is it cheating if you both agree?
Monogamish occurs when two people mutually agree (without any emotional, financial or other coercion) that certain types of sex outside of their relationship are okay and don’t count as cheating. For a monogamish agreement to work, both individuals must be honest about who they are and what they want sexually.
Is infidelity and adultery the same thing?
is that adultery is sexual intercourse by a married person with someone other than their spouse while infidelity is unfaithfulness in marriage: practice or instance of having a sexual or romantic affair with someone other than one’s spouse, without the consent of the spouse.