How do you talk to a child who shuts down?

How do you talk to a child who shuts down?

Three tips for talking to a shut-down or reactive child

1. Don’t talk, listen. Or at least, talk less, listen more.
2. Don’t talk directly to your child. Let him overhear you expressing your concern or uncertainty (but not any criticism or judgment) to someone else.
3. Write him or her a letter. Yep. Actually on paper. (Less likely to elicit an immediate and defensive reaction).

How do you deal with a struggling child?

1. Use parenting strategies that bring out the best in your struggling child.

1. Ask yourself, “What does my child need from me right now?” This will help you focus less on how you are feeling and more on what you can do to help.
2. Validate your child’s feelings.
3. Be a calming presence.

How do you know if your child is a slow learner?

What do we know about slow learners:

1. They have difficulty in taking multi-step directions.
2. Do not develop long-term relationships.
3. Tend to live in the present only.
4. Tend to have a poor self-image due to the awareness that they don’t keep up.
5. Work on task slowly but can be methodical.

How do I help my child with a learning disability?

Tips for dealing with your child’s learning disability

1. Keep things in perspective. A learning disability isn’t insurmountable.
2. Become your own expert.
3. Be an advocate for your child.
4. Remember that your influence outweighs all others.
5. Clarify your goals.
6. Be a good listener.
7. Offer new solutions.
8. Keep the focus.

What is the difference between a learning disability and a learning difficulty?

In general, a learning disability constitutes a condition which affects learning and intelligence across all areas of life, whereas a learning difficulty constitutes a condition which creates an obstacle to a specific form of learning, but does not affect the overall IQ of an individual.

Is a learning disability a mental illness?

A learning disability isn’t the same thing as a mental health issue—but they can be closely related. For children and adults alike, a delay in identifying a learning disability can increase the risk for anxiety and depression, according to Dr. Krunic.

Does a learning difficulty mean that the child is less intelligent?

They may be due to a mental handicap or a cognitive disorder. Having a learning difficulty does not make someone less intelligent, it just means they learn in a different way that can render traditional classroom activities problematic.

What is the IQ of someone with a learning disability?

IQ measurement has traditionally been used to define severity: A person with an IQ of less than 20 would be described as having a profound learning disability. A person with an IQ of 20-34, a severe learning disability. A person with an IQ of 50-70, mild learning disability.

What are the needs of a person with a learning disability?

Individuals with learning disabilities will experience problems with recalling information, telling the time, conceptualising time, maintaining self-care and accompanying activities needed to maintain daily life skills.