What should you not do in a custody battle?

What should you not do in a custody battle?

9 Things to Avoid During Your Custody Battle

• AVOID VERBAL ALTERCATIONS WITH EX-SPOUSE AND/OR CHILDREN.
• AVOID PHYSICAL CONFRONTATION WITH EX-SPOUSE AND/OR CHILDREN.
• AVOID EXPOSING YOUR CHILDREN TO NEW PARTNERS.
• AVOID CRITICIZING THE OTHER PARENT TO LEGAL PARTIES, FAMILY, OR FRIENDS.
• AVOID NEGLECTING CHILD SUPPORT PAYMENTS AND/OR AGREED UPON PARENTAL RESPONSIBILITIES.

How do narcissists deal with child custody?

Tips for co-parenting with a narcissist

1. Establish a legal parenting plan.
2. Take advantage of court services.
3. Maintain firm boundaries.
4. Parent with empathy.
5. Avoid speaking ill of the other parent in front of the kids.
6. Avoid emotional arguments.
7. Expect challenges.
8. Document everything.

How do narcissists deal with court?

Listen calmly and take notes. Make bullet points of items that you would like to address but do not allow yourself to get sidetracked and angered. Stay focused and stay centered at all times. Make reminder notes: You need to remind yourself that you are dealing with a narcissist.

How does a narcissist act during divorce?

During a divorce, narcissists can be manipulative and exploitive, feeling neurotically entitled to get whatever they want. Narcissists blame everyone else for their problems, and because they are so self-centered, even while bullying their spouses they often perceive themselves to be the victims.

Why are narcissists so angry?

The narcissist’s attempts at being seen as perfect are necessary for their grandiose self-image. If a perceived state of perfection is not reached, it can lead to guilt, shame, anger or anxiety because the subject believes that they will lose the admiration and love of other people if they are imperfect.

How do narcissists heal after divorcing?

Here are five ways to heal and protect yourself after divorcing a narcissist.

1. Know what to expect.
2. Trust yourself.
3. Set boundaries.
4. Practice effective communication.
5. Focus on healing.
6. Read more: How to get a narcissist to reveal themselves.

Why do narcissists drag out divorce?

Narcissists want a perfect image, and divorce signals the world that they have a big spot on their record. To defend against that shame, they drag out the divorce by blaming you for it. To get revenge. The narcissist does not want you to move on with your life, even if they have.