How do I parent my 11 year old?
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How do I parent my 11 year old?
10 Tips for Parenting Preteens
- Don’t feel rejected by their newfound independence.
- Set aside special time with your child.
- Try the indirect approach.
- Don’t be overly judgmental.
- Watch what they watch with them.
- Don’t be afraid to start conversations about sex and drugs.
- Don’t overreact.
- Don’t be “clueless” either.
How do you deal with a lazy unmotivated teenager?
Motivating the Unmotivated Child
- Lack of Motivation is a Form of Resistance.
- All Kids are Motivated by Something.
- Kids Resist Because They Lack Problem-Solving Skills.
- Don’t Argue or Fight With Your Child About Motivation.
- Be Clear, Calm, and Give Consequences for Your Child’s Behavior.
- Give Effective Consequences.
Why does my teenage son not care about school?
Your child/teen has outside interests that he feels conflict with or are mostly unrelated to any learning he is doing in school. Some kids truly don’t feel that school has any meaning for them in their future lives. Some have interests in non-academic fields and don’t see the value in school learning.
What do you do when your teenager hates school?
Use active listening techniques when talking to your teen about the issue. When you talk to your teen about why he hates school (and when you talk to him about other topics too), use active listening techniques such as the following: Give your teen your full attention. Don’t multitask.
What do you do when your teenager is failing school?
If your teen has a failing grade or is in danger of not passing, sit down and discuss the problem. Ask your teen for help uncovering the reasons they are not passing. Sometimes students who start out strong get sidetracked, while other students just aren’t motivated to stay on track.
What do you do if your teenager refuses to go to school?
If your child is avoiding or refusing to go to school, talk to your child’s therapist. He can help develop strategies to help resolve the situation, such as addressing your child’s sleeping habits so that he is ready for school in the morning.
