What happens if my husband filed for divorce first?

What happens if my husband filed for divorce first?

If you file first, you control when the divorce gets filed. You can decide to cancel the divorce, as long as she hasn’t filed a response. You have until your spouse files an answer to your complaint to cancel the divorce. By filing first you are the plaintiff and she will be the defendant.

How do narcissists react to divorce?

Because narcissists are unable to take responsibility for their own actions, they will blame you for the current state of the relationship and the divorce. In fact, their immediate reaction to the divorce may be to blame you and/or the children for their shortcomings.

Why are narcissists so vengeful?

They often become angry because of these perceived attacks and typically lash out in revenge. One narcissist may be insulted and seek revenge because of a gesture or word that was not even intended as criticism, while another may only respond in a vengeful manner to direct criticism (constructive or not).