What causes a person to be immature?
What causes a person to be immature?
It can be caused by a neurobiological immaturity of brain functioning, or through a childhood trauma, or other means.
How do I stop acting childish?
Create healthy boundaries
- Be self-aware. Have an awareness of your own comfort level. Identify which situations make you feel hurt, uneasy, or angry.
- Communicate with your partner. Mention that there are certain things you won’t tolerate, like being shouted at or lied to.
- Follow through on what you say. No exceptions.
How can I talk more properly?
When it’s your turn to talk…
- Get your thinking straight. The most common source of confusing messages is muddled thinking.
- Say what you mean. Say exactly what you mean.
- Get to the point. Effective communicators don’t beat around the bush.
- Be concise.
- Be real.
- Speak in images.
- Do it with thought and care.
- Use your eyes.
How can I express my thoughts better?
10 Steps to Express Yourself Better in Writing
- Plan. Even the briefest of outlines can help organize a thought process.
- Write like you talk. Some writers feel the best way to get their ideas on paper is to start with an oral representation.
- Mind your tone.
- Use Imagery.
- Write Dialogue.
- Share inner thoughts and voices.
- Answer questions.
- Change Perspectives.
How can I speak professionally when speaking?
Speak Like a Professional
- Use short, clear, declarative sentences. Short sentences focus your message and make it easier for your audience to follow.
- Speak in the active tense. Own your actions.
- Stay calm under pressure.
- Speak naturally.
- Say what you mean.
- Focus on what matters to your audience.
- Be specific.
What is something smart to say?
- 11 Phrases Intelligent People Say Every Day (and So Should You)
- “No one else is willing to do that, so that’s what I will do.”
- “I will answer the question that wasn’t asked.”
- “Hey, that wasn’t so bad after all.”
- “I can’t do everything today, but I will take one small step.”
- “I should just be quiet.”
What to say instead of you’re so smart?
10 Things You Can Say Instead of “YOU’RE SO SMART!”
- “Nice work, tell me about how you did that.”
- “Nice grade!
- “Tell me about your drawing/test/essay/etc.”
- “How did you get so good at that?”
- “Did it take a long time to learn how to do that?”
- “Who is someone who helped you get good at that?”
- “You must have worked hard to do that well.”
How do you overcome an insult?
Three steps to dealing with insults
- Understand that insults are externals and they are nothing to us.
- “Hear the truth without insult”
- Use a strategy to deal with the insult when it is not justified.
- Know that insults cannot hurt us.
- Deflate insults by ignoring them.
- Understand that not getting insulted is a sign of strength.