Do divorce mediators work?

Do divorce mediators work?

Anyone going through a divorce should consider mediation, which can work for almost all couples and has a long list of benefits. Mediation is much less expensive than a court trial or a series of hearings. The mediation process can improve communication between you and your spouse, helping you avoid future conflicts.

How does mediator work in divorce?

They are neutral and don’t take sides with any of the people involved in the mediation. They will facilitate the process by encouraging people to talk about the particular issues in dispute. They are trained in working in a family law environment and in responding to domestic and family violence.

How do you get what you want in mediation?

Mediators help the parties get what they want by asking open-ended questions to find out what it is they want. To determine their desired outcome, the mediator can simply ask, “What exactly are you looking for in this deal?” The mediator should try to determine if the parties’ wants are common, different or opposed.