What not to say after someone dies?

What not to say after someone dies?

  • “How are you doing?”
  • “You’ll be okay after a while.”
  • “I understand how you feel.”
  • “You shouldn’t feel that way.”
  • “Stop crying.”
  • “At least he’s in a better place; his suffering is over.”
  • “At least she lived a long life, many people die young.”
  • “She brought this on herself.”

What can I say instead of stay strong?

Alternatives to Saying ‘Stay Strong’ After a Death

  • I’m so sorry for your loss. I’m here for you.
  • I can’t imagine how you feel right now.
  • This is a hard time.
  • It’s okay to take your time.
  • I know how much you loved them.
  • I wish I had the right words.

Is it okay to tell someone to stay strong?

DON’T SAY: Stay strong. ​When someone passes, it’s perfectly normal to break down in tears, feel weakened by the loss, or even feel absolutely exhausted. When someone tells you to be strong, they mean well, but it just feels like they’re telling you not to process your feelings. And that’s not cool!

What is a good Bible verse for encouragement?

  • John 15:13. Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends.
  • Psalm 27:12. The LORD is my light and my salvation; whom shall I fear?
  • Romans 15:13.
  • Isaiah 40:31.
  • Philippians 4:13.
  • Matthews 17:20.

Why does God let us struggle?

Just as God allowed Paul to suffer to keep him from becoming conceited, God allows us to suffer so that we too will realize we are actually more powerful for Christ when we accept our weaknesses so we can accept God’s sufficient grace in our lives. 2. God Allows Us to Struggle Because “it is sin living in me.”

Can God solve all problems?

The Bible says, “The way of the Lord is a refuge for the righteous” (Proverbs 10:29). But God also will give you wisdom to deal with your problems. When we come to Christ, God Himself comes to live within us by His Holy Spirit — and one of His purposes is to help us when we face difficult times.

Why does God want us to live?

God expects us to accept His Son, the Lord Jesus Christ, as our Savior. He expects us to give our lives to Him, and in so doing, develop the character of Christ. God wants us to become more like Christ. God expects you to trust Him, Love Him and pattern yourself after His Son, Jesus Christ.