What kills a relationship faster?

What kills a relationship faster?

1. Blame and shame. Aside from all-out abusive behavior, blaming and shaming may be the fastest way to kill your connection. Both behaviors communicate contempt for your partner, displaying that you view him or her as beneath you or deserving of scorn.

Is it normal to dislike your husband after having a baby?

Two thirds of parents are less satisfied with their marriage after having a baby, according to a widely-cited 2011 study by famous couples’ therapists, John and Julie Gottman. In fact, it’s so common, that a lot of people think it’s inevitable and acceptable, John Gottman told the American Psychological Association.

Why you shouldn’t put your child first?

When you put your children’s wants and needs before yours, you create an authority imbalance. Once you establish a pattern of putting your children first, they become the leaders and you become the follower. Children lack the experience, wisdom, and capacity to live independently.