How long does a parent have to be absent to be abandonment in NY?

How long does a parent have to be absent to be abandonment in NY?

six months

Can a 9 year old decide which parent to live with?

1 attorney answer Although a child’s wishes are one factor among many the court must consider in determining the child’s best interests, a minor child never gets to “decide” which parent to live with.

Does my 14 year old have to visit her dad?

Under the law, each parent must follow a custody order exactly. This means, you’re obligated to make a child in your care available for visits with the other parent as laid out in the custody order. A parent may have a different role in making visits happen for a four-year old child versus a 14 year-old one.

What can I do if my child refuses to see me?

Try to get to the bottom of why your child doesn’t want to spend time or stay with your co-parent. Let your child express their feelings to you without judgment. When it’s your turn to respond, do so with kindness and understanding. Show them that you understand their concerns by considering those as a whole family.

At what age does visitation end?

18

Can a child refuse to see their father?

If the court has made an order for contact, it will expect the resident parent to encourage the child to have contact and ensure that it takes place. However, the child may simply refuse to have contact with the non-resident parent. It is possible that the non-resident parent will take the case to court.

Can a father get full custody in NY?

Neither parent has a better chance of getting custody in New York, which means that a father can get custody. Child custody cases are decided on a case-by-case basis. Custody can be decided when there has been a New York divorce or when the parents have not been married but have had a child together.

What are the disadvantages of joint custody?

The disadvantages include the fact that the child is often in a state of limbo, constantly going back and forth between the parents’ houses and can feel alienated and confused. In addition, often it becomes very hard for parents to maintain two homes for the child’s need.

What is reasonable access for a father?

It is usually in the best interests of the child to have contact with both parents. The law provides that father’s should have “reasonable access” to their children. However, there is no set guidelines for reasonable access for father.

What does a 70/30 schedule look like?

A 70/30 custody schedule means that a child spends 70% of their time in the care of one parent and 30% with the other. That corresponds with an average 2 nights out of 7 visiting one parent. Two out of seven is actually 29%. But the final percentage is often 30+ because of longer vacation visits.

What is a fair parenting plan?

A defined schedule for holidays and vacations. A basic outline of who makes what decisions on behalf of a child. A transportation plan (to another parent’s house, to extracurricular activities, etc.) The financial responsibilities each parent will take on. A process for handling disagreements, should they arise.