Can you love someone and still want a divorce?

Can you love someone and still want a divorce?

It’s okay to love each other and still choose to end your relationship, in fact it’s the best way. While the split will still be sad, it doesn’t have to be dramatic or deceitful. #2 LIE : If we loved each other more, we would be able to make this relationship work.

Will the pain of divorce ever go away?

The residual anger, hurt, confusion, depression, and even self-blame don’t just disappear once a divorce is finalized. Even if you’re the one who pushed for it, divorce still creates all sorts of emotional pain, so don’t be surprised if you’re still feeling the pain of divorce and struggling to move on in your life.

Why divorce hurts so much?

Another reason it hurts so much is that most people who are going through divorce are having to deal with so many losses all at the same time. You’re hurting for a broken relationship, of course. And often at the same time, you’re hurting because of that feeling of being betrayed by your spouse.