Why should children not be forced to choose sides in a divorce?
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Why should children not be forced to choose sides in a divorce?
Therefore children should never be forced to choose sides in a divorce. Children cannot choose sides and if a parent expects their child to choose their side, it creates confusion for the child about their emotional safety in the family. Never disparage your former spouse in front of your children.
How do you help your parents not get a divorce?
Tell your parents, either together or separately, that you don't want them to split up. Think of this as something similar to an intervention with an alcoholic or other addict. Make a list of the consequences of their divorce as it will affect you. Tell them you are feeling unhappy and upset due to their conflict.
Is it bad if you want your parents to divorce?
If you want your parents to divorce because one of them is way nicer to you (like you're more spoiled by one of them, not like one of them is abusive in any way, in which case definitely don't feel bad and they should get a divorce) then that's a pretty bad reason to want them to get divorced.
Can you divorce someone even if they don’t want to?
You can still get a divorce even if your spouse does not want one. States do not force a couple to stay together if one person no longer wants to be married. However, it can definitely complicate the process if the other party does not want to go through with it.